Sex = a carnal urge that needs to be satisfied.
You only have sex to satisfy yourself (and yourself only).
Making love = doing the act with the aim of satisfying your partner, putting his/her enjoyment and sexual satisfaction above yours.
How many times do I hear girls giving out their heart to guys who only want to get into their pants ? The tell-tale signs are so obvious yet they are oblivious to it... (ok ok, love is blind! I got it..)-Case study 1. -
Gal with Guy for quite some time.
Guy always tell Gal he gotta work late into the night.
Gal created a new msn account.
Guy was online in her "new" account but offline in her own account...
Gal flirt with Guy extensively using the new account.
Guy wanna meet up with Gal for sex.
Gal went offline.
Sometimes when they together, gal would check on his hp.
Guy was careless (or a retard), he never wipe his mouth, don't keep the messages for what fuck.
Guy sms to 2-3 other gals and it seems that they are pretty close, even to the extent that the gals asked him when he wanna fuck again etc.
Gal still don't believe that he strayed, said till she saw with her own eyes.
Gal continue to fuck with Guy without condom, putting herself into unforeseen risks...-Case Study 2.-
Girl fucks around because she can find temporary love, care and concern in these guys.
ONS is social norm for her.
3some is enjoyable because she likes to suck cock and get fucked at the same time.
Maybe she will go into gangbang soon, who knows ?
Found a Boy.
Boy wanted Girl to be exclusively his but don't want to have an official relationship with her, claiming he just ended a r/ship, don't wanna start one so soon yet.
Girl believed him.
Fucked with him only (almost a nightly affair)
Girl got the looks to die for, a nice figure and really nice big boobs!-Conclusion-
Men use love to get sex, Women use sex to get love.
Nice guys finish last.
They don't get to fuck any girls, cause all the bad boys use love to get the sex they want, and all the stupid girls made their so called love.
Ok ok, I admit I am not that innocent afterall (if not how the hell would you find me here ?). I do fuck around when I am single, sex is a need to be satisfy (both ways).
But I don't tell girls that I love them so that I am allowed into their harem.
And I despise men that do that.
"Hey you know something ? I love you!" (at the same time thinking, HOR SEH LIAO! TONIGHT LIM BEI WILL FUCK YOU NICE NICE!)
These kind of people deserve to be strike by lightning and castrated. __|__
If you want the girl to be your fuck buddy and not your significant other half, just tell her so. Playing with her feelings will only hurt her more... trust me... I been there before...